I'm going to try and leave small sex tips that people may or may not know in short, easy to digest lists. I want this blog to not just be educational and titillating, but to help other people and myself remember to play with sex and try new things always.
- Use a flavored lube for titty-fucking or other boob play. Bonus points if you and your partner use this as an excuse to go to a sex shop and sample.
- Try putting a pillow beneath the receiving partner while in doggy style or missionary positions. A full body pillow can be used to elevate their whole body up slightly, or a small pillow can be placed under their hips for variations in position/angle. Check out Liberator Sex Furniture for awesome cushions and other aids for great sex!
- Incorporate edging into passive activities, like watching TV. Play with yourself, your partner, or give and receive some oral. Slight distractions while you play can help extend the session for hours.
- Use a soft scarf, towel, or other wide fabric element to make doggy style really fucking fun! (See what I did there???). Loop it under the receiving partner when they are on all fours, pulling it lightly against their hips and the front of their upper thighs. Then, the giving partner can hold on to both ends and get extra traction. It's basically a free version of this.
Hope these find you in good health and help you have some fun tonight!
-A
Saturday, May 31, 2014
DIY Portable Stripper Pole - A
Some wonderful gent was planning on attending Burning Man this year, the wonderfully bohemian art and culture gathering turned semi-commercial, tripped out art festival that happens every year in the Nevada desert.
But this particular guy wanted more. As in more half-naked girls dancing near him. So he built a portable stripper pole. A stripper pole is one of the best ways to initiate casual, semi-erotic fun in any setting in my opinion, second only to a game like Dick and Virginia.
I'm including a link to his build images and plans below. I have seen portable stripper poles before, but they were all either flimsy and dangerous, came with "X" shaped bases of metal that were prone to falling over, or were so huge that calling them portable was a stretch. This one is portable, safe, inexpensive, and looks amazing! I'm extremely tempted to make this, and see if I could use some kind of bags or containers filled with water instead of sandbags. That way, they could be emptied easily for transportation. The wife needs a new toy anyways!
Thursday, May 29, 2014
10 Questions - A.
"Good artists borrow. Great artists steal."
The Sex is Fun podcast did a series called "Five Questions." In these episodes, the interview subject was asked five questions about their sexuality. These questions were constructed to give a good overview and introduction to a person's sexuality, a broad look at how they define themselves and their sexual lives.
I loved this series. It was simple. It was intimate. It was enlightening. To sit and give focus to the basics of a person's sexuality in a clean format is rare inside of sex podcasts.
So we are stealing it, modifying it, re-painting the sign outside and dusting off the countertops, making it our own. S and I will be launching a new audio series in the spirit of "Five Questions." This will be our first podcast/audio show, and I look forward to seeing where this leads. Our version of the five questions is longer, less broad, and a little more geared towards creating an entertaining audio show. I welcome any feedback about this proposal.
The ten questions asked to each guest, starting with S and I, are:
1. Who are you as a sexual being? This description can include, but is not limited to, labels about gender, labels about sexual orientation, preferences, kinks, interests, attractions, age, religion, race, experience, etcetera. Feel free to be as broad or specific as possible, keeping in mind that any information offered will help us know you better.
2. What is/are your first memory(s) of sex, arousal, and/or sexuality?
3. How where you raised or taught about sex in your early life?
(Early life through elementary school)
Did you seek out any additional education on your own during this time?
4. How were you raised or taught about sex in your teenage life?
(Middle school through early college)
Did you seek out any additional education on your own during this time?
5. Who do you hope or aspire to be in life as a sexual person?
6. What is a particularly good sexual memory you have, a memory that stands out as an amazing experience?
7. What are some fantasies you have fulfilled in your life so far? Did they live up to your expectations?
8. What are some fantasies you have yet to fulfill, and know for sure that you definitely want to?
9. What are some fantasies you have yet to fulfill, and are unsure if you will or not?
10. What are your thoughts on sex in culture today?
After these questions, I will offer one last chance for the subject to make any comments they feel that need to be shared. This will be a time to confess deep, dark desires, personal stances, pimp out their information for our audience, or just decline and politely sit back.
The Sex is Fun podcast did a series called "Five Questions." In these episodes, the interview subject was asked five questions about their sexuality. These questions were constructed to give a good overview and introduction to a person's sexuality, a broad look at how they define themselves and their sexual lives.
I loved this series. It was simple. It was intimate. It was enlightening. To sit and give focus to the basics of a person's sexuality in a clean format is rare inside of sex podcasts.
So we are stealing it, modifying it, re-painting the sign outside and dusting off the countertops, making it our own. S and I will be launching a new audio series in the spirit of "Five Questions." This will be our first podcast/audio show, and I look forward to seeing where this leads. Our version of the five questions is longer, less broad, and a little more geared towards creating an entertaining audio show. I welcome any feedback about this proposal.
The ten questions asked to each guest, starting with S and I, are:
1. Who are you as a sexual being? This description can include, but is not limited to, labels about gender, labels about sexual orientation, preferences, kinks, interests, attractions, age, religion, race, experience, etcetera. Feel free to be as broad or specific as possible, keeping in mind that any information offered will help us know you better.
2. What is/are your first memory(s) of sex, arousal, and/or sexuality?
3. How where you raised or taught about sex in your early life?
(Early life through elementary school)
Did you seek out any additional education on your own during this time?
4. How were you raised or taught about sex in your teenage life?
(Middle school through early college)
Did you seek out any additional education on your own during this time?
5. Who do you hope or aspire to be in life as a sexual person?
6. What is a particularly good sexual memory you have, a memory that stands out as an amazing experience?
7. What are some fantasies you have fulfilled in your life so far? Did they live up to your expectations?
8. What are some fantasies you have yet to fulfill, and know for sure that you definitely want to?
9. What are some fantasies you have yet to fulfill, and are unsure if you will or not?
10. What are your thoughts on sex in culture today?
After these questions, I will offer one last chance for the subject to make any comments they feel that need to be shared. This will be a time to confess deep, dark desires, personal stances, pimp out their information for our audience, or just decline and politely sit back.
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